Hohoho... The lawyer's secretary called me earlier, telling me the (draft) deed poll is ready and asked me when I am free to go down. To my surprise, both the kids are required to go down as well to sign the papers. The first thing came into my mind is like how are they know how to sign when they are only 5 and 8 years old? I asked the secretary and she just put me to the lawyer. He informed me that they only need to initiated the documents, not exactly signing. Now, why can't the secretary explained such simple explanation instead of pushing everything to "wait for the lawyer"? She gave me an impression that she is very unsure of everything and having STM too. Haha..
Anyway I made an appointment with her on friday afternoon since everyone is free. I have planned to go there around 4pm and perhaps I can pick up the wedding band later on. I realised that I can pick them on from 1st August but only need to give them a call before I go down. Blur me..
Saw the Strait Times earlier on and found out that 1 of the Nepalese twins had passed away. Remembered they were a big news back then when they came to Singapore to have the operation to separate their heads. It's sad to see them have such ending despite being separated successful. I thought they would live on like us.. No, actually they don't. Their family is very poor, so they don't eat and live well. Malnutrition and hygiene problem is their killer. Both the twins look weird compared to normal kids. The operation caused the younger one being unable to walk while the older one with brain damage. And due to the fact, the younger twin's brain is not protected by the bone, she is rejected by school. She now use her hands to drag her body to walk around. Questions came into my mind.. Is it really a wise decision to separate them? Those who contribute $ for their operation, did they regret it? Did we made their lives more miserable? Perhaps if we don't separate them, they might not survived long, they won't be able to see each other but... I don't know.. There is no perhaps, there is no turning back. Life is always like this, you can't undo it once you make a decision. I do hope I won't make any wrong decision again.
YaYa
Anyway I made an appointment with her on friday afternoon since everyone is free. I have planned to go there around 4pm and perhaps I can pick up the wedding band later on. I realised that I can pick them on from 1st August but only need to give them a call before I go down. Blur me..
Saw the Strait Times earlier on and found out that 1 of the Nepalese twins had passed away. Remembered they were a big news back then when they came to Singapore to have the operation to separate their heads. It's sad to see them have such ending despite being separated successful. I thought they would live on like us.. No, actually they don't. Their family is very poor, so they don't eat and live well. Malnutrition and hygiene problem is their killer. Both the twins look weird compared to normal kids. The operation caused the younger one being unable to walk while the older one with brain damage. And due to the fact, the younger twin's brain is not protected by the bone, she is rejected by school. She now use her hands to drag her body to walk around. Questions came into my mind.. Is it really a wise decision to separate them? Those who contribute $ for their operation, did they regret it? Did we made their lives more miserable? Perhaps if we don't separate them, they might not survived long, they won't be able to see each other but... I don't know.. There is no perhaps, there is no turning back. Life is always like this, you can't undo it once you make a decision. I do hope I won't make any wrong decision again.
YaYa
No comments:
Post a Comment