Nowadays my life is getting so much easier. My son now started to insist on him fetching the sister home after school. Haha... Enen has tuition every Monday and Thursday so I got to fetch her after 6.30pm but I reach home daily around 6pm leh. So since Ah B wanted to fetch her, I let him be. I agree that Ah B is very independent, he doesn't need much supporting. Once you teaches him once or twice, he would do it himself.
I maple last night, for passing time since dear was working OT (he came back quite late, ard 11pm). Was almost going to log out and jie came online. Was kinda of surprise as she hardly or perhaps never came to Cass. She told me to add her dar into guild and suddenly she threw a bomb to me; she is getting separation and divorce while the dar I added is her real life bf. OMG... I really had never expected that they will be divorcing since they had known each other for so long. If I didn rmb wrongly, they had been together for almost 10 years. I had no idea what happen between them, jie don't talk much about it and I know she doesn't like people to probe into her relationship. Mei, don't tell anyone in our family hor. Jie wants to tell them herself ar, later she kill me. -.-ll
Asked a bit of her bf though. His name is Jeff, a malaysian too. He is 22 years old this year (so young lor). I am kinda of concern about their relationship not that they are having a big age gap. It was later in the chatting, I realise jie hides many things about her life and family. Firstly, the bf doesn't know jie's real age (he tout she is 28 lo), he doesn't know she is married wif a child and getting divorce in few years time. I am not sure how much facts jie hides from him and how Jeff going to react when he know the truth. I guess he will definitely be angry and upset...
I always think that one has to be truthful or else you have to giving a lie to cover up the original lie you had said. Malaysians are more conservative, they will need some time to accept one who is divorced or with kid(s). Dear's parents took almost a year to start to accept me and the kids. At least dear knew my background right from the start so he has accept me even before we are together. However, for jie's case, is like lying lo. I mean if he doesn't accept you as who you are, this kind of person doesn't deserve your love at all. I truly hope that jie will find her own happiness.. Jie, I really advice you to let him know the truth. The longer you keep it from him, the angrier he will be.
YaYa
I maple last night, for passing time since dear was working OT (he came back quite late, ard 11pm). Was almost going to log out and jie came online. Was kinda of surprise as she hardly or perhaps never came to Cass. She told me to add her dar into guild and suddenly she threw a bomb to me; she is getting separation and divorce while the dar I added is her real life bf. OMG... I really had never expected that they will be divorcing since they had known each other for so long. If I didn rmb wrongly, they had been together for almost 10 years. I had no idea what happen between them, jie don't talk much about it and I know she doesn't like people to probe into her relationship. Mei, don't tell anyone in our family hor. Jie wants to tell them herself ar, later she kill me. -.-ll
Asked a bit of her bf though. His name is Jeff, a malaysian too. He is 22 years old this year (so young lor). I am kinda of concern about their relationship not that they are having a big age gap. It was later in the chatting, I realise jie hides many things about her life and family. Firstly, the bf doesn't know jie's real age (he tout she is 28 lo), he doesn't know she is married wif a child and getting divorce in few years time. I am not sure how much facts jie hides from him and how Jeff going to react when he know the truth. I guess he will definitely be angry and upset...
I always think that one has to be truthful or else you have to giving a lie to cover up the original lie you had said. Malaysians are more conservative, they will need some time to accept one who is divorced or with kid(s). Dear's parents took almost a year to start to accept me and the kids. At least dear knew my background right from the start so he has accept me even before we are together. However, for jie's case, is like lying lo. I mean if he doesn't accept you as who you are, this kind of person doesn't deserve your love at all. I truly hope that jie will find her own happiness.. Jie, I really advice you to let him know the truth. The longer you keep it from him, the angrier he will be.
YaYa
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